The Stranger Beside Me

The Stranger Beside Me is a 1980 biographical true crime book about the infamous serial killer, Ted Bundy, written by American author Ann Rule. The book explores Rule’s unwitting friendship with Bundy after they met in 1971 while working for a Crisis Clinic in Seattle, Washington. When she first discovered evidence of his double life, Rule experienced intense cognitive dissonance that prevented her from merging the Ted Bundy she knew with his secretive, murderous side. Rule remained tenuously acquainted with Bundy until the time of her writing, and hoped, by recording her perspective, to accept his criminality. The book became well-known for its direct insight into the life and mind of a serial killer.

Rule begins her biography (which is, at the same time, an autobiography) by backgrounding her relationship with Bundy in her career as a homicide documentation professional for Seattle’s police department. Though Rule made little money in her role, she took the job because she desperately needed a way to support her four children after an abrupt divorce. Rule broke up the monotonous process of recording case details with volunteer stints at the Crisis Clinic.

At the Crisis Clinic, Rule, then middle-aged, met a charismatic young man in his mid-twenties, Ted Bundy. They quickly became friends. Rule’s first impression of Bundy was that he was extremely bright, recently out of college, and soon headed for law school and a respected political career. Bundy passed as a highly sensitive individual who possessed a special skill for providing immediate help for crisis callers, even talking some out of committing suicide. Outside their volunteer jobs, Rule and Bundy’s lives barely overlapped. She reflects that she likely would not have met someone like him if their volunteer work had not brought them together. However, in close quarters, Bundy became a sympathetic resource whom Rule relied on to talk about her stresses with her family, love life, and career.



During the few years in which Bundy and Rule worked together, Seattle and many other areas in the Pacific Northwest were hit with a string of murders; specifically murders of young women. A large part of Rule’s police job shifted into documenting these crimes and their ensuing police investigations. In the beginning, Rule had no idea that her colleague and friend was responsible for the murders. However, as the cases progressed, she noticed that the unknown murderer’s profile seemed more and more to resemble Bundy. After struggling for months with the possibility that her friend was a serial killer, she informed her colleagues at the Seattle police department that Bundy might have carried out the murders of the young women.

After she informed the police, Bundy seemed to drift out of contact, and the crimes in the Pacific Northwest, which had been frequent, tapered off. They reemerged in Colorado and Utah. Without Rule’s knowledge, Bundy had moved his life to Utah. He was arrested in Colorado on a charge of theft and sent to jail. He escaped jail not once, but twice, and absconded to Tallahassee, Florida to escape pending murder charges. There, he either attempted or committed the murders of four young women who went to the University of Florida. He also engaged in a long list of petty crimes.

Bundy’s final victim was a twelve-year-old girl who lived near Tallahassee, whom he raped and killed. Finally, he was arrested while trying to cross the Florida border with stolen plates on his car. Rule notes, ironically, that his arresting officer had no idea that he had just captured someone on the FBI’s Most Wanted list.



Rule’s book provides insight into a criminal who, after her publication, confessed to committing thirty murders between 1974 and 1978. The true number of victims remains unknown. The Stranger Beside Me testifies to the fact that one cannot fully “know” another individual through a professional connection, or sometimes, even, through a close friendship.